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Christma Eve Reflections

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Where do I turn to when there's no choice to make? And how do I presume when there's so much at stake? I was so sure of it all - Marcus Mumford It's Christmas Eve.  Perhaps more than most days of the year, today is when many of us come face to face and realize that what we believe to be true- what we desire above all--doesn't mesh with what we see around us.  It's called "cognitive dissonance"-the feeling you get when you are experiencing is exactly opposite to what you believe to be true. For some of us, the feeling is a mere shiver of uneasiness, but for others, it's a full-on, constant shudder that doesn't want to go away.  We know the world isn't as it should be.  Not by a long shot.  And there are not enough cute animal videos on Facebook to improve it. So, we retreat into our traditions, gatherings and exchanging of gifts.  We may even decide to shutter our windows to what's happening "out there," or even within us, for that...

The Gift of Waiting During Advent

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As we journey through the season of Advent, we find ourselves in a unique space of waiting—a time that invites us to pause, reflect, and anticipate the joy of Christmas.  In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to overlook this season's profound lessons, especially the power of hope. The true essence of Advent lies not merely in the countdown to Christmas but in what we cultivate within ourselves while we wait. In George Herbert's evocative poem “The Sacrifice,” he reflects on the tension of our yearning and the divine promises we anticipate. Herbert writes: "Come, my Way, my Truth, my Life: Such a way as gives us breath, Such a truth as ends all strife, Such a life as killeth death." These lines urge us to seek a path illuminated by hope and truth. In the context of Advent, they remind us that waiting is not merely about the absence of Christmas but about embracing the journey of preparation and spiritual renewal.  The "way" we walk during this season can rejuve...

Reclaiming The True Meaning of Christmas

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As we navigate the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season, it’s too easy to get lost in the whirlwind of shopping, parties, and relentless expectations.  Everywhere we turn, we are bombarded with advertisements showcasing the latest gadgets and must-have gifts, creating pressure to conform to an increasingly materialistic culture. Yet, Christmas calls us to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters — love, generosity, and connection. The Advent season is a powerful reminder that the most valuable gifts aren’t found wrapped under a tree, but in the moments we share with our loved ones. A meaningful Christmas is defined not by the extravagance of our celebrations but by the depth of our relationships and the sincerity of our intentions.  The insightful book  Advent Conspiracy challenges us with a profound declaration: “We want to be people who are committed to a different kind of Christmas.”  This statement encapsulates the essence of the holiday—encour...

Finding Wonder and Joy During Advent

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As the Advent season comes to a close in these last days before Christmas, it beckons us to embrace an attitude of wonder and joy.  This special time of year, brimming with lights, decorations, and the warmth of community, serves as a poignant reminder of the beauty surrounding us and the joy that can be found in the simplest of moments.  However, as we grow older, the relentless demands of daily life often cloud our sense of wonder, leaving us in a routine that can feel tedious and uninspired. It is in this loss of wonder that our joy can also diminish. Children possess an innate ability to experience wonder—a quality that shines brightly during the Advent season. For them, the twinkling lights on the Christmas tree are not merely decorative but a magical display that transforms their world.  The anticipation of Christmas morning fills their hearts with excitement, turning every day into a countdown filled with potential and surprise. Their laughter and awe remind us tha...

Living In Anticipation & Hope During Advent

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As we journey through the Advent season, we find ourselves in a sacred space characterized by anticipation and reflection, preparing for the joyous celebration of Jesus’ birth.  This time of waiting is not merely about counting down the days; it serves as a powerful reminder that hope is alive—a beacon illuminating our path toward a new and better world. The Advent season invites us to connect with our deepest longings and fears and to seek the hope that the birth of Christ promises. Walter Brueggemann beautifully captures this sentiment in his book, Celebrating Abundance , where he writes:   “We are called to convert our hope into action, to dare to believe in the possibilities of life and abundance.”  This profound statement urges us to recognize that hope is not a passive emotion but an active choice that requires our engagement. As we prepare for Christmas, we are invited to see ourselves as agents of that hope, nurturing it within ourselves and our communities....

Discovering Hope In Community

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As we step further into the season of Advent and closer to Christmas, many of us find that our schedules are beginning to tighten a bit more than usual.  So much so that we might be feeling a wee bit stressed.   I've been feeling the pinch of that tightening as I've juggled work, family responsibilities, and many other things, including holiday gatherings with friends, co-workers, and the like.  As an extroverted introvert, I sometimes feel myself wanting to withdraw even though, on the outside, I seem like I'm outgoing and fully on board with a whole lot of "people-ing." When you add that to the season's stress and the overall uncertainty of the world around us, it becomes easy for me to want to isolate.  But I've learned that if I act on those feelings whenever they arise, I rob myself of opportunities to experience real connections and life-giving moments of shared joy and hope with others.   Sadly, far too many of us choose isolation over community...

Restorative Nature of Grace: A Reflection for Advent

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As the season of Advent unfolds, we are drawn into a sacred space, a time set apart for reflection, anticipation, and spiritual renewal as we wait for the symbolic arrival of the Christ child and the hope of a new world that comes with it.   We are also drawn into a space where we can experience grace and offer it to others, even when it's difficult. Maybe it's because of the season, and I have started listening to Christmas music unbidden, but lately, I'm more inclined to be more grace-filled than usual.      It's hard to get mad at someone who takes your parking space when Celine Dion's version of "Oh Holy Night" blasts on the car stereo, and only moments before you were singing along with gusto.   It's the kind of thing that can get you thinking about the more profound lessons of Advent.   Advent invites us to prepare our hearts for Christ's coming to celebrate His birth and embody the transformative power of grace in our lives. With its r...